The Law of LOVE

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Love is the dominant, primal energy of life.

It was here before we arrived, and its presence brought us into being. Because it is the defining principle of our humanity, we become whole to the degree that we are able and willing to receive and give love.

Thus we must love in order to live and live in order to love.

Love is the transcendent value that makes all other worthwhile values possible. It is love that enables us to rise above our insecurities and be both comfortable with ourselves and at home in the universe.

At its primary, most elemental level, love is acceptance. Those who love you take you just as you are. Then they expect you to view yourself as already accepted by them, in spite of your limitations, your failures and all that you find unacceptable in yourself. They know you are not perfect and need to grow beyond who you are at the moment, but the fact that you are imperfect does not deter them from accepting you. Love offers you unconditional acceptance.

From one side of the coin love, we receive the favor that it is not deserved. If you have car trouble along the road and a stranger stops to assist you and refuses to accept payment for it, that’s a work of love. If co-workers accept you in your new job without requiring you to prove yourself worthy of them, they’ve done a loving thing.

On the flip side of the coin, love withholds judgement that is deserved. So if people love you, they don’t reject you because you’re imperfect, or make mistakes or act unacceptably. They also don’t automatically require restitution when you disappoint them or take revenge against you if you violate them.

This unconditional love is perfect because:

  • It cant be criticized or improved upon – you cant imagine anything better.
  • It receives us perfectly – it freely accepts us just as we are.
  • It values us enough to ask for our best
  • It perfectly bonds us to others – it leaves nothing between us and them.
  • It creates hope, peace and joy, the bases of perfect human experience.
  • It insists, by its very nature, on social justice, the perfect human ethic.

Extract from Too Nice for Your Own Good: How to Stop Making 9 Self-Sabotaging Mistakes by Duke Robinson (1 Nov 2000)

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Love isn’t finding a perfect person. It’s seeing an imperfect person perfectly.

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☆ Fear holds close, Love holds dear ☆

☆ Love is the energy which expands, opens up, sends out, stays, reveals, shares, heals.

☆ Fear is the energy which contracts, closes down, draws in, runs, hides, hoards, harms.

☆ Fear is the opposite of love (hate is just a bi-product of fear)

☆ That is why I always send out Love and Smiles

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He who binds himself to a joy

Does the winged life destroy

But he who kisses the joy as it flies

Lives in eternity’s sunrise.”

-William Blake, Eternity

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love not ego

From Friendship to Companionship to Relationship

“Romance is all the little kisses in between.”

The practice of LOVE…

Love is never lost, it is all that you are.

Love is neither an emotion, nor is it an action, it is all that you are, You cannot loose love, you believe that you loose love when an object of your desire does not love you back, but the love that you are is always intact. It is ego that tells us that we have less love, it is ego that tells us that we are less than love..It is ego that tells us that we are less than we are….Ego is the fear that lies to us, it puts up walls and tells us that it is love that hurts, it was never love that hurt, it is the illusion that we are less that hurts.. it is the falsity that says love is lost..Love is never lost, it is all that you are.x Love between two is the expression of who you are.

When you run away from love, your running in the wrong direction. ~ Catherine Love

First Sight

“I believe
in love at first sight
I will always believe
that the people
we love
we have loved before.
Many, many
many times before
and when we stumble
through grace
and circumstance and
that brilliant illusion of choice
to finally meet them again
we feel it faster
each time through.
The one glance
that set life alight
is two sets
of two eyes
staring through the layers
of lifetimes
and stolen glances
and first kisses
and hands held;
the brace against the
weight and unrelenting
tide of waiting.
I believe
in love at first sight
but am not burdened
with the misconception
that it’s a first sight
at all.”
Tyler Knott Gregson

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Quotes about Love ~ The ones from children are the best!

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One Comment

  • Rose Evans
    Posted November 14, 2013 at 10:09 am | Permalink

    The need to receive can get in the way of unconditional love – when we fall in romantic love it is natural to get attached and want to receive more – sometimes it’s ♫never enough♫….
    Getting the balance between giving and receiving is crucial – Dependence, Independence, Interdependence.
    Life is not always easy but it is always worth it!

    ♫ ‘Take good care of yourself, your such a special person’ ♫
    From the song ‘never enough’ ♫♥♪ The Brainchild album
    ‘Conversational Tennis’

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